ORDERED, that, except in cases of an emergency where the parties do not have time to communicate with each other, if a decision has been made (in accordance with the procedure listed above) for the minor child to obtain therapy or other mental health care, the parties must both agree on who that mental health care provider will be. Neither party shall have final decision-making authority on this narrow issue, and the parties must express their approval in writing. Written approval may be via email or text message. It is further
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ORDERED, that if either party wishes to travel with or send the minor child more than 100 miles away from the District of Columbia, that party must give at least 14 days of notice to the other party. That notice must include:
(1) where the minor child is traveling, including all airports the minor child will be using; (2) where the minor child will be staying, including postal addresses and at least one phone number for an adult who can be reached at that residence/commercial location; and (3) the name of all individuals with whom the minor child will be staying. Either party who wishes to engage in such travel is strictly responsible for making sure that the minor child is returned on time for the custody exchange. It is further
ORDERED, that if either party wishes to change the residence in which they will live with the minor child, that party must provide their new address to the other party at least 30 days prior to the move (or as much time as
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possible if it is not possible to give that information at least 30 days prior to the move). It is further
ORDERED, that if either party seeks to move with the minor child more than 100 miles from the District of Columbia, that party shall first have to file a motion for a hearing, pursuant with [sic] Estopina v. O'Brian, 68 A.3d 790 (D.C. 2013), unless both parties have mutually approved in writing to [sic] the change in residence. Written approval may be via text message or email. The court did not find that this added language was justified or necessitated by a substantial and material change of circumstances. As we have said, such a finding is normally required to support a modification of a child custody award. However, for the most part, the above additions do not reallocate custody between Mr. Builta and Ms. Guzmán or change the particular custody arrangements themselves; they merely clarify the vague requirement of timely communication between the parents about decisions relating to E.A.'s safety and general welfare. The desirability of such clarification was apparent in light of the difficulties both parents had in complying with the timely communication requirement. We see no reason to condition clarifications like these on a predicate showing of a substantial and material change in circumstances bearing on custody.73On appeal, Mr. Builta
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has not objected to any of the above amendments. Ms. Guzmán objects to only one of them, namely, the requirement that both parents notify each other before embarking on long-distance travel with E.A. She argues that the trial court lacked the authority to include this requirement given its finding that there had not been a substantial and material change in circumstances. In our view, such a finding was not necessary as the court did not alter the child custody arrangements or the parties' respective custodial roles and responsibilities. Rather, the court merely enforced each parent's existing obligation to timely communicate decisions regarding the minor child's safety and general welfare.
For the reasons that the trial court gave, we are satisfied that the court did not abuse its discretion or otherwise commit reversible error in declining to find that Mr. Builta's noncompliance with the legal custody provision amounted to a substantial and material change of circumstances warranting the drastic changes in legal and physical custody that Ms. Guzmán requested. "Courts are aware of the danger that distance relocation with the child. Neither parent has objected to these particular provisions, however. We note that the former requirement was triggered by Mr. Builta's unilateral engagement of a therapist for E.A. without Ms. Guzmán's consent, and was designed to protect her interests. As for the latter requirement, if either parent proposed to move with E.A. more than 100 miles from the District of Columbia without the other parent's approval, we have no doubt that it would be a substantial and material change of circumstances justifying consideration by the court of the reasons for the move and the non-consenting parent's objections.
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children will be disturbed by changes in custody and are generally reluctant to modify existing custody arrangements."74In the present case, given the strong reasons the court identified for preserving E.A.'s existing relationship with each parent, the parents' mutual noncompliance with their duties as legal custodians to consult with each other, and their demonstrated ability to fulfill those duties to meet the child's needs, we hold that the court exercised its discretion appropriately by choosing an alternative remedial measure that was far less drastic and potentially detrimental to the best interests of E.A. It was reasonable for the trial court to conclude that "sustaining the validity of the original agreement between the parties"
and enforcing it would accomplish its goals and be in the child's best interests.75
C. Other Child Custody Modifications
Ms. Guzmán challenges two other custody-related modifications the trial court made in its Second Trial Order, claiming that they were not supported by changed circumstances. One of those modifications was to the shared physical custody schedule in the Consent Agreement that was incorporated but not merged in the 2018 Final Order. The schedule provided for exchanges of custody to occur on
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Wednesdays after the end of school. Mr. Builta requested the court to change the exchange day and time to Monday mornings, claiming this would be more convenient for everyone. Although the court found that the inconvenience of the Wednesday exchanges did not rise to the level of a substantial and material change, it granted Mr. Builta's request, reasoning that the change to Monday mornings
"would also not be a substantial and material modification to the award of custody"
and would not prejudice either parent. Ms. Guzmán objects to the change and argues that, in the absence of a substantial and material change in circumstances, the trial court lacked authority to grant it. Under this court's precedents, we are constrained to agree with her notwithstanding any apparent lack of prejudice to either side or to the child.76We reverse the trial court's decision on this point. Ms. Guzmán also challenges the trial court's grant of Mr. Builta's request to prohibit her from attending E.A.'s school during his scheduled custodial time. Specifically, Mr. Builta asked the court to enter an order barring the non-custodial
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parent from attending or visiting the school during the custodial parent's custodial time (with exceptions for special events like school plays or ceremonies) without the custodial parent's consent. Ms. Guzmán, who volunteered as a room parent and was actively involved in school activities and the PTA (for which she served as a Vice President), opposed this request.
There had been a brief unpleasant confrontation at the school on one occasion in 2019 (three years earlier) when Ms. Guzmán encountered Mr. Builta and his wife there, and Mr. Builta also complained about Ms. Guzmán's unshared communications with school administrators. But there was no other evidence that Ms. Guzmán's volunteer activity at the school was detrimental to E.A. or his relationship with his father and stepmother, or that Ms. Guzmán took advantage of her presence in the school for such activity to undermine Mr. Builta's custodial rights. So far as appears, moreover, Mr. Builta had occasion to visit the school only rarely, so the likelihood of further confrontations there with Ms. Guzmán was not demonstrated.77The court granted Mr. Builta's request, however, reasoning that he was "simply asking for his own space and time to interact with the school,
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unencumbered by [Ms. Guzmán's] physical presence (and inappropriate behavior) at the school during his custodial time." Thereafter, when the court denied Ms. Guzmán's motion to reconsider, it said that the purpose of the bar order was to forestall "the risk of placing the minor child once again in the middle of an intra-family feud—especially in front of his peers and schoolteachers."
While the trial court's intentions were benign, we agree with Ms. Guzmán that the court erred in granting the motion to bar her from E.A.'s school whenever E.A. was in Mr. Builta's custody under the parties' schedule. The court cited no legal basis for its order, and we are not aware of one. Nothing in the parties' physical custody agreement supports the order, and it appears in tension with Ms. Guzman's joint legal custody of E.A.—a status that includes, among other things, "the right"
to make decisions regarding E.A.'s education, access E.A.'s educational records, and speak with and obtain information about E.A. from school officials and counselors.78To the extent the barring order may be characterized as a modification of, or restriction on, Ms. Guzmán's legal and/or physical custody of E.A. (which was not how the court viewed it79), it is not supported by any showing of an unforeseen
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substantial and material change in circumstances, or that Ms. Guzmán had used her presence at E.A.'s school as an opportunity to assert custody over the child in contravention of Mr. Builta's custodial rights or to interfere with his rights, or of a need to bar her from the school for E.A.'s protection or otherwise in his best interest. In general, while a court has discretion to modify the child custody provisions of a divorce decree, its power to do so is limited and any modification must be supported by its findings and rationally related to the changed circumstance it purports to counter. That is, the modification must be "reasonably calculated to promote the child's best interest and welfare, which is the controlling consideration."80Because this standard was not satisfied here, we must vacate this part of the trial court's order.
IV. Remaining Issues
Ms. Guzmán raises several other issues that we address briefly as follows.
A. The Trial Court's Finding that Ms. Guzmán "Acted in Contempt" of the Custody Scheduling Provisions of the Parties' Consent Agreement
modify the custody (or visitation) schedule in place, but to set a boundary between the parties for the occasions not specifically addressed in the First Trial Order." The court viewed its restriction on Ms. Guzmán's presence at E.A.'s school as "a minor provision that facilitates, rather than changes, the existing custody." We think that characterization minimizes the impact of the order, which we consider a substantial infringement of Ms. Guzmán's liberty and parental authority.
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The parties' Consent Agreement contains a schedule for each parent to share joint physical custody of E.A. on an equal basis, alternating custody weekly subject to special rules for holidays and the summer months. As pertinent here, the Consent Agreement provided that E.A. would spend the Christmas Holiday (defined as the Wednesday of or before Christmas through the following Wednesday) with Ms. Guzmán in odd years and with Mr. Builta in even years. The agreement further provided that Ms. Guzmán would have E.A. with her every Three Kings Day— specifically, every January 5 starting at 1:00 p.m. until January 6 at 7:00 p.m. And the agreement provided for the "regular access schedule" to "resume without adjustment following" any holiday (including the Christmas Holiday period and Three Kings Day).
This agreement therefore apparently provided for Ms. Guzmán to have uninterrupted physical custody of E.A. for a three-week period surrounding Christmas in 2021, from December 15, 2021, to January 6, 2022. It was during this period that Ms. Guzmán took E.A. with her to visit family in Puerto Rico. While they were there, Mr. Builta—believing Ms. Guzmán was not in compliance with the agreed-upon schedule—filed an emergency motion to hold her in contempt of the court's divorce decree. Mr. Builta requested that the court sanction Ms. Guzmán by awarding him costs and attorney's fees. The trial court ruled that Ms. Guzmán "did act in contempt" of the 2018 Final Order (according to the court, by not returning
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E.A. to Mr. Builta on December 29, 2021, the first Wednesday following Christmas). However, because E.A. had been "returned" and the parties were again complying with the custody schedule, the court chose not to formally "hold" Ms. Guzmán in contempt or sanction her in any way.
Ms. Guzmán contends on appeal that the trial court abused its discretion in finding her in contempt. She argues that the court misconstrued the scheduling provisions of the Consent Agreement, and that, in any event, contempt was not an available remedy because the agreement was not merged into the Final Order.81In response, Mr. Builta argues that the issue is moot, inasmuch as the court specifically did not "hold" Ms. Guzmán in contempt and desisted from sanctioning her. Ms. Guzmán responds that the court's erroneous contempt finding could be brought up in potential future custody disputes and "weaponized[d]" against her.
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Notwithstanding Ms. Guzmán's concern, the law is settled that we do not have appellate jurisdiction to entertain her challenge to the finding that she acted in contempt of the Final Order.82We recently explained this as follows:
"This court has consistently held that 'where the trial court has imposed no remedial or coercive sanction conditioned upon compliance with [a] contempt order, an adjudication of civil contempt lacks the certainty, specificity, and finality essential for judicial review.'" "[T]he embarrassment and unpleasantness of having been found in contempt, without more, will not create a justiciable controversy, and . . . an individual so adjudicated does not have the right to appeal simply to clear his or her name."83 Lacking jurisdiction, we must refrain from addressing the merits of Ms. Guzman's objection to the court's pronouncement that she "did act in contempt" of the divorce decree.
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B. Ms. Guzmán's Objections to Other Rulings and Findings
Ms. Guzmán objects to various other rulings and findings by the trial court. These include claims that the court erred in (1) failing to compel Mr. Builta to answer two questions at his deposition (one about his wife's income in 2019, and the other about the number of days E.A. was absent from school in 2018-19), (2) admitting into evidence school reports regarding her confrontation there with Mr. Builta, (3) denying Ms. Guzmán's request to examine Mr. Builta as a "hostile witness," and (4) observing in the Second Trial Order that E.A.'s multi-racial background was part of the reason he was enrolled in the particular charter school he attended. Whatever the technical merits of Ms. Guzmán's objections, she has not demonstrated and we do not perceive that she was prejudiced by these miscellaneous minor rulings and comments. It is well established that we will not reverse due to merely "technical errors or defects."84
Finally, Ms. Guzmán contends that the trial court erred by summarily denying her many claims for attorney's fees during this case's extensive pretrial litigation. Ms. Guzmán complains that the court agreed in a pretrial hearing to hear these claims
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after trial but instead summarily denied them in its Second Trial Order.85We find the discussion of this issue in Ms. Guzmán's brief too cursory and conclusory to enable us to evaluate her claim or perceive that the court abused its discretion. We are not going to sift through the record and make arguments for Ms. Guzmán without her help. That said, we note that, upon review of the record, it is not clear to us whether or to what extent the trial court's denial of attorney's fees in the Second Trial Order applied to Ms. Guzmán's pretrial litigation requests, or that those requests were meritorious. For example, it appears that many of the claims for attorney's fees that Ms. Guzmán brings up actually were already disposed of by the
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trial court before trial, including her requests for attorney's fees regarding motions to quash subpoenas, her motion to compel deposition responses, and her first and second motions for contempt. Ms. Guzmán also does not provide further context to explain the exchange she reports between her counsel and the trial court, which is ambiguous and does not explicitly identify which of Ms. Guzmán's many claims for attorney's fees were to be "held" until after a judgment was released. In any event, we are remanding for further proceedings, which will afford Ms. Guzmán an opportunity to seek reconsideration of the court's summary denial of her requests for attorney's fees if she chooses to do so.
V. Conclusion
For the foregoing reasons, the judgment of the Superior Court is affirmed in part and reversed in part, and this case is remanded for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.
So ordered.